It sounds cliche but the relationship we keep with ourselves is the foundation of everything in our lives. We do tremendous hardwork for our career, family, relationships and everything else in this world but we barely consider to take out time for ourselves. What defines our overall happiness? Have you ever thought about it? Seems you have not . It’s nothing but the way you treat yourself, take care yourself, talk to yourself and feel about yourself . Isn’t it simple? When you accept yourself truly and love the way you are you become your own best friend and you don’t need anybody else’s approval. Imagine yourself as a plant, when you water a plant ,take care of it , protect it then it blooms with colourful flowers. Same way when you keep a nurturing relationship with your own self, you become your best version.
Although this is not a quick fix and it takes time but you can start building a relationship with yourself from now on. So what needs to be done? Simply start by making little changes in your daily life .

You can also follow things given below to get your best self.

-Speak politely with all.
-Include self compassion.
-Give priority to self care.
-Setting a healthy boundary.
-Stay grateful for everything.
-Try to be patient and mindful. 
-Appreciate your achievements.
-Incorporate self reflection practice.
-Never compare yourself with anyone.
-Surround yourself with progressive people

Embracing Self Love through Affirmations

When you embrace your true identity and love yourself you feel more confident, worthy and fulfilled. When you feel and visualize that you are worthy of good things, you start absorbing positive energy from your surroundings. This is the first step in your self-love journey. Remember, nobody is perfect; every part of nature has its unique imperfections. Embrace your flaws—everyone has something they wish were different. Don’t feel small over minor things; it’s a part of life. Nourish and cherish your soul to build strength. Practice self-love affirmations by standing in front of a mirror and looking into your eyes. We are giving some affirmations for your motivation, you can customize them accordingly:

Affirmations

“I feel gratitude for the abundance that I have in my current life and I am open to attract positivity in my life “
“I am extremely confident and ready for the challenges life will throw and I will take them as an opportunity to improve myself “

Affirmations

“I feel immense pleasure in each moment of my present life and I enjoy my life”
“I choose to create space for improvement and healing and I let go of all my worries”

From Self Doubt to Self Assurance

From where does this self-doubt comes? As a kid we never feel this emotion. Agree or not? Observe a child playing happily, eating something, Talking to someone or doing anything. Does the child have self- doubt? No! You know why?

Self- doubt arises from Fear. Fear of decision, fear of making long term choices or fear of choosing life’s purpose or simply anything. We people drift from one thought to another without consciously thinking about what we want or where we are headed in our lives. This decisiveness occur because we don’t get clear about our destination. So stop thinking that you are not capable or you are not good enough because it will only drag you in the darkness. Get up and make a routine for yourself. Make small goals and Once you achieve them write them in your journal. Write your good qualities and improve everyday because every single day of this life is as precious as you can think.

Using affirmation to boost self confidence

Your mind is your remote control. Do you know that your mind has the capability to control anything that is happening inside your body. yes! you heard it right. Its all about how you perceive things so here are some affirmations which you can take as a motivation to boost your self confidence. Remember to practice them regularly and use the affirmations which are meaningful according to your life situation.

I am good enough to achieve success and remain satisfied with both my strengths and weaknesses.
I choose to accept what the universe gives me, knowing I am worthy of it.
And, I feel genuine contentment in my own company and love myself deeply.
Inside and out, I am beautiful, and I attract abundance in every area of my life.
I am thankful to the universe for my present reality and am continually working toward my highest good.

Overcome self doubt with manifestation

Overcoming your self doubt is a smooth process. You only need to follow some simple basic steps and will move towards your higher version. All you need to do is to practice self- compassion ; self-compassion is finding out your achievements and your good qualities, no matter if it is as small as your soft behaviour towards your friends and family. Find out your good things and the hard work that you do and this will help you to remove any negative thoughts that bothers you. Never compare yourself with others because you have your own unique values and you should cherish them. When any negative thought comes to your mind, first recognise that ,you can Also write that thought and you can analyse the source of that negativity .You can either remove that or make a distance with it. This way you can gradually make your self-doubts disappear.

Enhancing self love and confidence in daily life –

Instead of blaming your destiny or your past life you can take lessons from that and start a fresh new journey. To enhance self- love and confidence, You can engage yourself in the activities or hobbies that you like. You can appreciate your body image and accept yourself as you are .You can create a self- care regime by giving yourself a pamper session and going for a solo date with yourself. You can sit in nature spend time with your loved once and you can also listen to other people’s talk because with that you can realise and feel that everyone has something going  in their life. In order to boost your self- confidence you can practice meditation, regular exercise and taking small challenges. Self love is not only about spending on expensive things but it is all about feeling satisfied with the smallest things of your life.